I did recently. It was the first time using this method. While it helped my sanity initially, I probably shouldn't have used this method on someone who was manipulative. She took advantage of the situation. I'll rethink taking that course of action again.
Oh my god I thought I was the only one who struggles with Limerance and usually at the sight of the first good looking man! Is it an INTJ thing? It's annoying. I've only managed to destroy it once my lapse of reality is has burst. Usually I spend a few weeks day dreaming like crazy about them and I know it's completely irrational, but I can't do anything about it.
Then something will happen and it's like the biggest slap in the face ever and the limerance ends. For some people it just never goes away...a certain person I've known for about 4 years... Rejection is difficult (particularly for INTJ's who only spend their time on people who deserve to know about them) so talking to the person doesn't always work.
I find I just have to ride it out and wait for that slap in the face. =/
So I found this in the INFP section and thought it would be useful for my fellow INTJS. Courtesy of Nova.
Take issue with something going on in society?
Having a bad day?
Have something on your mind that wont go away?
Experience something so fabulous you just have to express it?
Hello INTJs! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to INTJ female Rachel Dennison on what it's like to be an Ni-Te BS/C(P) MF. I learned a lot from her on what feminine introverted intuition is like and what a quiet swing or mini-tidal wave is like when she goes over and uses her masculine...
On an almost daily basis I am confused (and amused) by certain conversations I have with others. I suspect I'm not alone. Please post examples (and the other person's MBTI) if you have them - if not the exact words then the general gist.
Here is one from today:
ISFJ: X's house was broken...