So to start off I was at a party last saturday. I had done my fair share of drinking when I met a girl a year older, much in the same state. We quickly hit it off, but unfortunately she had to leave so she gave me her # and we kissed goodbye. At this point I must reinforce the alcohol intake. Neither of us were sober. Infact just after she left the party my memory just blanks out (yes yes i know it's not healthy to drink that much). So being the the guy who never dated through highschool or the year after, I was nervous as hell to call her up. So I finally work up the courage to call her today after I got home from work.
Conversation went as follows:
me - "Hey ____, it's rbt from ___'s party from saturday."
her - "Oh hey how's it going." (sounds equal parts surprised and confused)
me - "Not to bad just got off work, and you?"
her - "Pretty good, and ya I just got off work too."
me - "So hey, I was wondering if you're not busy Thursday, if you'd like to go grab some coffee or something?"
her *sharp long inhale like when you're taking a splinter out of your finger "Sorry I have an appointment at the chiropracter Thursday."
me - "Oh, is your back ok?"
her - "It's actually my knee that's hurt."
me - "Oooh. Ok, well if your free anytime just lemme know." (with an added bit of nervousness and hint of panic)
her - "Oh ok, bye." (sounds confused)
me - "Later."
, me thinks I panicked and subsequently blew it. So, what are your thoughts. Cause to be perfectly honest that was the first time I asked a girl out, and frankly I don't think it went that well. Or maybe I am just over analyzing... I really hope I am just over analyzing.
Conversation went as follows:
me - "Hey ____, it's rbt from ___'s party from saturday."
her - "Oh hey how's it going." (sounds equal parts surprised and confused)
me - "Not to bad just got off work, and you?"
her - "Pretty good, and ya I just got off work too."
me - "So hey, I was wondering if you're not busy Thursday, if you'd like to go grab some coffee or something?"
her *sharp long inhale like when you're taking a splinter out of your finger "Sorry I have an appointment at the chiropracter Thursday."
me - "Oh, is your back ok?"
her - "It's actually my knee that's hurt."
me - "Oooh. Ok, well if your free anytime just lemme know." (with an added bit of nervousness and hint of panic)
her - "Oh ok, bye." (sounds confused)
me - "Later."