Your parents sound so much like mine! ESTP mother, motivated, dominant powerful. INTJ father – traditional, distant and not too understanding. Both of them don't understand me; they're proud of me in many ways, but they never understand me, my feelings or desires. My mother is still upset with me because i've made it clear I don't want marriage or children. My dad and I fall out regularly — I just accept that I see the world in a different quality, and I forgive them for their different view. Remember that they really do love you through it all.