Eh... yeah. At first I'm always the one awake when they're passed out. I never go ahead and leave though. I just deal with it and over time I get used to it.
Eh... yeah. At first I'm always the one awake when they're passed out. I never go ahead and leave though. I just deal with it and over time I get used to it.Do other INFJs find it difficult to fall asleep next to other people?
I have noticed in relationships and when sharing a bed with anyone for that matter, I cannot fall asleep untill they do.
If it is a new romance I might even leave all the sudden in the middle of the night. I tell them good bye of course, but it is still really weird to them.
LOL yes, this can be quite disturbing. :crazy:Whenever I pass the night at my friend's house, im the last one to fall asleep (and should I say how HORRIBLE this is??? you start hearing extremely weird noises when everyone else is down!!!) and also at my house.
Huh, interesting, I had not thought of it before but it is much easier for me to nap arround people.but this is only for SLEEPING, taking a nap in front of others is extremely easy for me
Yeap I have no problem sleeping next to anyone. Having been in the army helps you to sleep anywhere, anytime haha!In a relationship I don't mind at all sleeping next to her.
I use to never fall asleep with others around. I still remember the first time I did.
But after some time and the military this type of stuff doesn't bother me anymore.
Come to think of it, the thing I miss most about my past long term relationships is sleeping next to them. It is somehow very special to me. I feel like they are there for me and I am free to feel as much care and love for them as I want when we are sleeping, falling asleep, waking up, and times in between. I have to let go of the majority of my anxieties in order to fall asleep and I feel like they help me. That means a lot to me.Yes and no. For me, it's all about emotional intimacy.
Great...I've found a new cheap way to torture INFJ.
Make them sleep one close to another.
They will not sleep.:laughing:
That's interesting...that's the part I miss the most too. Waking up next to someone [special] is much more emotive to me (and painful to not have anymore) then actual sex. It's just so domestic and intimate and I feel really really safe and protected. Yeah, really special! I miss :-(Come to think of it, the thing I miss most about my past long term relationships is sleeping next to them. It is somehow very special to me. I feel like they are there for me and I am free to feel as much care and love for them as I want when we are sleeping, falling asleep, waking up, and times in between. I have to let go of the majority of my anxieties in order to fall asleep and I feel like they help me. That means a lot to me.