I'm learning that I have an extremely difficult time being romantic with someone. I can display my affections, but as it turns out, they are not very expressive (though it feels very expressive to me). I find that murmuring "sweet nothings", experiencing lots of physical contact, and receiving constant compliments about my appearance irritates me. This becomes a problem when I have strong feelings for someone, but can't embrace the "romantic" aspect of being around them. Does anyone else struggle with this? How can I learn to like it?