[Kalifornia310]

I sometimes don't talk to people first when I feel like I've been initiating too much. I figure if they're not initiating, then I've probably been irritating them.

She might also be busy, who knows. You could ask.

Ditto. I dislike being a burden, and I sometimes.. feel like a pest.. so if someone really wanted to hang out with me, they would hit me up.. I do sometimes hit up friends to chill.. but it depends. and if I do make first contact ill usually do it only once.