I'm an INFJ and she is an ISFJ and we've known eachother since we were 13 yrs. old. were in our 40's and I care about her and it just seems that I say all the wrong things to her. AHAHAHA. And quite honestly, I do not mean to hurt her. Maybe I should learn to just listen. I wish she would say that. That all she wants is someone there to talk to but not neccessarily need advice and someone just to hear her voice. I need feedback. I need help from other ISFJ's. She's important to me and I care about her. Thanks ISFJ's for being who you are!!! Johnny.