This seems to happen a lot to me.... mostly with family. I invite people to a party just a very small get together and they invite more people without asking me if it's okay. I then always think "who's party is this? Mine or there's?" This actually makes my blood boil. Am I over-exaggerating? Or are most INFP's like this?
Then it kills me because, I tell them I don't what the other people to come, and then they say "oh I'll just call them back then" it's like a spit in the face because 1) I don't want to look like an asshole. Picture this "Oh hey by the way you can't come anymore to the get together because, Keg doesn't actually want you to come! FALSE ALARM! SORRY TO GET YOU EXCITED!" I mean what the fuck? It's like people can't follow simple instructions and then they expect me to follow everything else. Then instead of me being angry at them I get mad at myself for being so mad about other people showing up. It's fucked up and if anyone knows other INFPs don't invite other people, my friends NEVER do that unless they ask me first.