No. I don't like the way they went about it at all. My parents are good people, and are very loving, but my father was completely hands off (Not absent, just lacking in any power) and my mother was like, Communist dictator style. I struggled with depression growing up, and extreme shyness alongside a natural tendency for introversion. When I needed a chance to foster myself privately and work things out without interference at a critical turning point in my life, mother installed spyware and child locks on my computer so I couldn't do or say anything without it showing up in a log on her computer, and I languished under that authoritarian style rule because I couldn't talk to the people I had been using as a resource. I stayed in the depth of my life a lot longer and worse than I could have, until I finally made her understand, through loud words and lots of shouting, that I needed the kind of freedom I have today. I understand what she was trying to do at the time, and what she had intended it to be (Her and dad were not, by any definition of any word, evil, they are very loving and had all the best intentions, I want that to be VERY clear), but it was completely contrary to who I was becoming/am as a person.
Did their style damage my personality? No. My personal relationship with my mother has yet to recover four years after the fact, but I'd say my personality had already taken deep roots by the time her parenting style kicked in. If anything, it only served to make me more introverted and feeling than I might have been.