[dulcinea]

Do you feel like you fit in?

I was just thinking about how the ENFJ I know has that skill of just fitting in wherever he goes. He's, like, the best social chameleon, and I feel like he's good at being popular. I just kinda wonder, are all ENFJs popular to an extent; do you all feel like you fit in a lot? or are there a lot of times when you feel like you're left out a lot too?

 

[SilentScream]

I can fit in, but I don't ever feel like I really do fit in.

But I've accepted that that's how life's going to be for me.

It comes with the territory of not just being an ENFJ, but mainly because I'm a Third Culture Kid with no specific cultural identity.

 

[Tyche]

I can fit in, if I try. I have never felt like I fit it, nor have I bothered much to fit in. I used to care, and sometimes still do, but it's a lot easier to do what I want

 

[Ryosuke93]

I truly get energized and happy with a good crowd of people. But there are many times where although I look like I am fitting in well, I'm not really at "home" with the crowd. Like I don't feel safe to be my true self to them.

 

[A Total Melvin]

I find that I can fit in if I really want to, but there are some crowds of people where I don't make much of an effort. Just how I am.

 

[Signed Yours Truly]

I think, to an outsider, I give the impression that I fit in, but rarely do I feel like it.