Is it really work though when you (i.e. me) get off on being able to maintain good relationships with people?
Yes, I agree, I like to maintain healthy relationships, and perhaps I could have used a better word. When I said "work" I meant effort.
I didn't mean to imply that it bothers me to put forth an effort, but was simply stating that some effort is required to have a successful relationship (from my experience). I didn't mean to put a negative spin on it.:crazy:
The term soul mate just conjures up an image, in my mind, that you can both just sit back, relax, and expect everything to be hunky-dory. Perhaps it is possible, but I myself have never experienced it.
And to add to the confusion, I'm sure everyone has a different image of what a soulmate is.
I hope this make sense, I'm not sure how else to explain.