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I'm talking about romantic relationships specifically, but I guess it could be any relationship at all.

I find myself comparing my relationship now to the relationship my ex and I had. When I was dating my ex, I'd compare that relationship to the first relationship I had.

Is this something that a few of us ENFJ's do, or is this just something that I do?
I almost feel bad about it because I know that not all relationships are going to be the same, but I can't help it :sad:
 

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Maybe I can rephrase a bit better.
While I do compare my relationships as a whole, I do often compare my partners as well.
"S did this but R didn't"....."R did this but J doesn't"
I feel like it's wrong of me, but it's something that I don't really THINK about thinking about haha. It's just there.
 

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LOL... Every relationship is different. I hate to say it but certain friends get treated differently too! But compare anybody to anybody else isn't exactly fair
 
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