[timely.grace]

I'm talking about romantic relationships specifically, but I guess it could be any relationship at all.

I find myself comparing my relationship now to the relationship my ex and I had. When I was dating my ex, I'd compare that relationship to the first relationship I had.

Is this something that a few of us ENFJ's do, or is this just something that I do?
I almost feel bad about it because I know that not all relationships are going to be the same, but I can't help it :sad:

 

[Jojo]

I do it. I try to learn from every relationship. I try to learn from my previous mistakes.

 

[timely.grace]

Maybe I can rephrase a bit better.
While I do compare my relationships as a whole, I do often compare my partners as well.
"S did this but R didn't"....."R did this but J doesn't"
I feel like it's wrong of me, but it's something that I don't really THINK about thinking about haha. It's just there.

 

[Jojo]

LOL... Every relationship is different. I hate to say it but certain friends get treated differently too! But compare anybody to anybody else isn't exactly fair

 

[timely.grace]

it really isn't fair :sad:
too much going on upstairs right now! utterly confused, that's for sure.

 

[Jojo]

Hey! You are super-awesome! If you ever need to vent I'm here!