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I don't think I ever really do. I've been thinking about this the last couple of days because I'm trying to get some friends together for dinner and it occurred to me how incredibly rare my actions are.
I always let others take the reigns.
Is this aversion apart of being an introvert - like I'd rather not initiate something I know will be draining? Is it laziness? Is it my unwillingness to impose on others and force them to do something they don't want to do?
(I can think of a good instance of the last: I never make others see the movies I want to watch but I'll always go to the movies my friends want to see even if I despise them *cough* Twilight *cough*)
So, do you ever do so? And, if not, why?
I always let others take the reigns.
Is this aversion apart of being an introvert - like I'd rather not initiate something I know will be draining? Is it laziness? Is it my unwillingness to impose on others and force them to do something they don't want to do?
(I can think of a good instance of the last: I never make others see the movies I want to watch but I'll always go to the movies my friends want to see even if I despise them *cough* Twilight *cough*)
So, do you ever do so? And, if not, why?