Yes i do, I have the feeling/idea that I have to make other people happy... and that I need to please them, do things for them. And I'm afraid to say ''no''. And the be clear to other people of how I think and feel about it, and not being unclear... I also have a very big problem/difficulity to set defined boundaries between me and other people. Many times I've been in situations with people who crossed them and it got all blurry and I said yes many times but actually not want to say yes. A part of me wants to make people happy but on the other hand i feel used and trapped by them. I hope this is a bit understandable, this is one big thing i need to work on in my relationships with other people. I see that the sense I'm a nice and caring person so I have the feeling I kind of invite these people to take advantage of me. Its so weird the see it happen that I can't say no, my automatic response is yes and do things for them, stay with them, get involved with them. I also have a great deal of pity for them because most of the time these are people who have gone trough a lot in life, are really depressed and or kind of apathic the don't actively change their situation... I want them to be happy but I don't know what to do with it... Rationally I feel I have to distance myself... but I don't know, maybe if my own adittude changes maybe they also act different to me... or maybe see them really once in a while and not such anymore. Because I also getting to take over their emotions, feeling depressed ect because of their situation... I have a lot of issues to work on within my own personailty (I don't mean the INFP part) but the things i said above, boundaries, being clear, giving my own opinion and stay with it, and more like that.