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Vote yes if you fit most of these:

Emo (unrelated to the music)
Loner
cries
quiet
no drive, no life goals
not rich
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things
Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy
Naive
Don't get along with jocks
Slob
Weak
Bullied
Misfit
Soft
Pixie-like
 

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I'm only soft-spoken sometimes (around the right people I am pretty loud and outgoing), and I am a neat freak. And while I am weak physically, I am crazy and have anger issues so that kind of makes up for it? And I'm a loner but not really by choice...I just can't make the close connections with people that I want.

But other than that I guess I fit most of the list.
 

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Bold - relate completely
Italic - relate somewhat
Nothing - don't relate

Emo
Loner
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things

Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy
Naive

Don't get along with jocks
Slob
Weak

Bullied
Misfit
Soft
Pixie-like
 

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Do I fit these? + for yes - for no

Supposed 'negative' characteristics:

Emo-
Loner-
Lives in a fantasy world+
Pushover-
Writes sad things-
Soft-spoken-
Hypersensitive-
Awkward-
Depressed-
Weird+
Hopeless romantic+
Serious-
Shy+
Naive-
Don't get along with jocks-
Slob-
Weak-
Bullied-
Misfit-
Soft+
Pixie-like probs
 

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Vote yes if you fit most of these:

Emo
Loner
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things
Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy
Naive
Don't get along with jocks
Slob
Weak
Bullied
Misfit
Soft
Pixie-like
I fail to see how most of these are negative. The majority of these are qualities I seek out in others and consider my personal strengths.
 

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"Don't get along with jocks"

Because all 'jocks' are the same. Why do we have to hold on to these out-dated Breakfast Club categories?

Also, not all of these are necessarily negative. But here I go (bolded the ones I relate to):

Emo
Loner
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things
Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy
Naive
Don't get along with jocks
Slob
Weak
Bullied
Misfit
Soft
Pixie-like


I personally would add other 'negatives', like:

- stubborn
- narcissistic
- existentialist
- under-ambitious
- overly idealist
 

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Hm, let's see....

Emo - no, because I keep my emotions private or anonymous
Loner - used to be, sometimes am, but not so much anymore
Lives in a fantasy world - only as a moody teen; now I just visit fantasy
Pushover - nope, never
Writes sad things - oh yeah
Soft-spoken - quiet, but not neccessarily soft-spoken
Hypersensitive - sensitive, but not "hyper", unless you mean HSP, which includes high sensitivity to external stimuli
Awkward - socially, sometimes
Depressed - not clinically, but a sort of pervasive melancholy to my nature
Weird - I dont think so, but others seem to think so. Its not the cute, zany variety, but more "odd"
Hopeless romantic - I dislike the bastardization of the word "romantic", but I identify with aspects of Romanticism and I'm idealistic, so maybe yes, but not without the caveats
Serious - I have a serious take on life, but I can be silly/goofy too. I can appear flippant and to not take stuff seriously in person though.
Shy - yes, but far less with age
Naive - in some ways, as far as not assuming bad about people and being idealistic, but not to the point of getting taken advantage of or being stupid
Don't get along with jocks - they probably disliked me more...I just didnt have stuff in common with them as a kid. As an adult I dont have any issue with athletic types.
Slob - Im messy, not filthy, but some might think Im a slob. I have good hygiene and dress well though.
Weak- no
Bullied - no
Misfit - probably....not a rebel, but often the odd one out
Soft- no
Pixie-like - no

In short, I dont embody them but neither are they totally off the mark. Besides the bolded, no one in person seems to attribute this stuff to me. I echo that many of these are not really negatives.

You forgot several stereotypes though:
- spaced out a lot
- poor time management
- cries a lot
- unable to use logic
- not good at math
- special snowflake syndrome
- unable to get job or make money
- unable to reach life goals

Those dont apply to me either, except Im not very punctual.
 
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Emo (unrelated to the music) - ewww
Loner - guilty
cries - only in private
quiet - mostly
no drive, no life goals - ewww
not rich - not poor either :)
Lives in a fantasy world - guilty
Pushover - ewww
Writes sad things - ewww
Soft-spoken - I have no idea!
Hypersensitive - ewww
Awkward - ewww
Depressed - ewww
Weird - guilty :p
Hopeless romantic - ewww
Serious - guilty
Shy - ewww
Naive - ewww
Don't get along with jocks - guilty
Slob- mostly :D
Weak - ewww
Bullied - ewww
Misfit - ewww
Soft - ewww
Pixie-like - ewww
 

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Emo (unrelated to the music) - good grief, no!
Loner - yes, but by choice
cries - rarely, and only in private (friends were dumbfounded and confused when they first saw me shed tears...that was also the last time in front of them since)
quiet - most of the time
no drive, no life goals - ...personally, I disagree
not rich - define rich
Lives in a fantasy world - more akin to an ideal world
Pushover - this word and I don't belong in the same sentence
Writes sad things - sadly, yes
Soft-spoken - initially, yes. I become more ardent over time, yet maintaining a level volume
Hypersensitive - not really. I'm only sensitive on a few matters.
Awkward - only if I know the other party is attracted/interested in me and i don't feel the same way about them.
Depressed - hmmm, I do have my cycles
Weird - society would not find me so, but I know I am...I understand social etiquette and refrain from any odd behavior
Hopeless romantic - more similar to an idealist actually, though not hopelessly so
Serious - more often than not, but rather silly with close friends or doing certain group activities that require me to loosen up so as not to be awkward in social settings and bring the general mood down for everyone
Shy - my family would beg to differ, but I think I am, initially. However, I seem to lose the ability to speak when a person that I'm attracted to is in the vicinity (I guess I become awkward in this sense, too)
Naive - oh dear, no, far from it! But in my teens, more so.
Don't get along with jocks - younger, no.
Slob - disorganized is a more apt term
Weak - NO
Bullied - for a very short while
Misfit - upon first impressions, no. But I am usually the odd one out
Soft - I can be, but not all the time!
Pixie-like - Definite no. I actually hate this description
 

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Emo
Loner (sometimes)
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things
Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward (depends on the mood I am in and what people I am around. A lot of people say I'm very graceful but I often feel awkward.
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious

Shy
Naive (Sad but true...)
Don't get along with jocks
Slob (eheheheheh. My roommate can agree.)
Weak
Bullied
Misfit
Soft
Pixie-like
 

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Emo (unrelated to the music)
Loner
cries
quiet

no drive, no life goals
not rich
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things
Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy
Naive
Don't get along with jocks

Slob
Weak
Bullied
Misfit

Soft
Pixie-like
 

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Emo - nah
Loner
cries
quiet
no drive, no life goals
not rich
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover

Writes sad things - npt sure much, but I do have an awkward liking for sad things
Soft-spoken - Hmm...not sure
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy

Naive - In some ways, but it could definitely be worse!
Don't get along with jocks
Slob
Weak

Bullied
Misfit
Soft - Hmm... maybe? Not sure...
Pixie-like - nah
 

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Emo
Loner
Lives in a fantasy world
Pushover
Writes sad things
Soft-spoken
Hypersensitive
Awkward
Depressed
Weird
Hopeless romantic
Serious
Shy
Naive

Don't get along with jocks
Slob
Weak
Bullied
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Misfit
Soft
Pixie-like- I don't exactly know what pixie-like means, but I have gotten called 'cute' 'sweet' etc. as far as personality all my life.
 

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I relate to:

Loner
cries
quiet
not rich
Lives in a fantasy world - less so as I get older, but I enjoy it in small doses
Writes sad things - most of the art I like has a darker tinge to it too
Soft-spoken - or too loud... seem to have a bit of trouble regulating my voice when I'm not performing
Hypersensitive - to physical stimuli
Awkward - depends on who you ask
Depressed - mental illness will do that to you
Weird
Serious - either that or really childish
Shy - becoming less so as I get older
Naive - idealistic might be a better description, because I rarely get taken advantage of anymore
Bullied - as a kid, yes
Soft
Pixie-like - but that probably has more to do with my physical stature than personality

Vast majority of these traits are not negative to me.
 
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