Every time someone solves a ridle, I get angry at them and me. Because I wasn't the one to resolve it first, because they managed to solve it before me, and because now I will not have the chance to solve it. I feel defeated.
Similarly, every time someone gives me a "ready" answer to a riddle that might present itself later in life (high school education does that), I feel about the same. As if I'm losing the chance to discover it myself when the time comes.
This isn't always the case, but it happens from time to time.
Do you relate to that?