Do you get annoyed if anyone tries to over define you even when you usually disagree with it? And then they keep pushing with their over definition?
I can be that way even with my closest friends. Once my best friend insisted that she thought I was fickle minded in some aspect. I got annoyed and simply redefined myself. I am getting used to the fact that certain people often underestimate my mind.
Also, there is this taxi driver I was quite familiar with. Once I was sad and I wanted to be allowed to be sad. He kept insisting as if he saw my sadness as me just being naive, and thought upon listening to his words, I should feel better enough. It really annoyed me.
I know from sociology and experience that negative self fulfilling prophecies can be devastating when they arise, all the way from the subtle to the real effects.
I think I should redefine myself again even if at the end people won't know who the hell I am.
I can be that way even with my closest friends. Once my best friend insisted that she thought I was fickle minded in some aspect. I got annoyed and simply redefined myself. I am getting used to the fact that certain people often underestimate my mind.
Also, there is this taxi driver I was quite familiar with. Once I was sad and I wanted to be allowed to be sad. He kept insisting as if he saw my sadness as me just being naive, and thought upon listening to his words, I should feel better enough. It really annoyed me.
I know from sociology and experience that negative self fulfilling prophecies can be devastating when they arise, all the way from the subtle to the real effects.
I think I should redefine myself again even if at the end people won't know who the hell I am.