My goal isn't to stand out yet I find myself standing out most of the time. Maybe ESXPs stand out because you can easily see that Se. We like aesthetics, thrive on competition and seek stimulation. ESTPs can stick out too but at least they have Fe in their fx stack where as ESFPs don't so we're not intune with the social atmosphere but rather our own feelings. Anyway, for me, i don't blend in most of the time.