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Do you have a type you have been able to deduce you attract more than other types?

shameless
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I will say knowledge on typing has let me know that apparently the type I attract the most of, in the wild or IRL is ENFJ. Strange phenomenon I am still trying to understand this.
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DOGSOUP
Umm, but who wouldn't want to put a ring on an ESTP?
shameless said:
If I ever want a guaranteed ring on it, picket fence, or a ride or die I just gotta go find an ENFJ
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DOGSOUP
I thought about it and to sum it up I attract guys that wanna explain me a lil something (ETs) and ladies who have a bad word to say (FJs). There's the occasional NP but what they want from me just. Acceptance from an ordinary person who can tolerate wonkiness.
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DOGSOUP
You have given me hope right after shameless so cruelly snatched it from my grasp
maximum danger said:
I don't think a relationship means captivity, least not to me. I guess I don't relate to this common ESTP thing, maybe more related to 7.
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DOGSOUP
Lol. I walked right into that one didn't I....
maximum danger said:
That's just what I say to a girl who wants a relationship before I leave her because I don't like commitment

 
Kidding kidding lmao
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DOGSOUP
Nothing in the world could have prepared me for that line, I'm still recovering
shameless said:
Your odds for putting me into captivity would be higher.
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shameless said:
:rolleyes:🤷‍♀️
Maybe I came on too strong with the marriage proposal
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You will hate me for saying this, but it was a bit 'demisexual' of you :p
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DOGSOUP
I'm not sure, as that is what some of them will actually say or it is implied.
Antiparticle said:
I think you are maybe misreading this part (ordinary person). In general I experienced this as a very good sign in a male interaction. Superior/inferior is not a good sign.
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DOGSOUP
Well, it could be some sort of stability they look for? Maybe ordinary wasn't exactly the right word.
OrchidSugar said:
I don't know if you are like this, but I like ISTPs because they do seem like pillars of strength. And they are doers with a healthy sense of freedom and independence, which I like. Plus they are usually quick with the jokes and commentary, which you are too. And they can become good teachers and mentors when they mature. But there is nothing ordinary about ISTP lol. Solid maybe. But ordinary, definitely not.
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