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I had to restate myself twice within two minutes today. I started thinking, could this lead to a lifelong social introverted conditioning? Or 'I need to grasp your understanding before you can grasp mine.'
The result of not doing this would be wasted energy, and would explain why large social settings are often draining. The listener's understanding determines the amount of explanation needed from me. It would explain a tendency to gravitate to some intelligent people who require less energy from me in socializing. It would explain many things.
My understanding is limited, but my questioning and reasoning goes against this (common?) view on introversion in some ways -
Do you do this for the listener's benefit?
Do you think introversion may be a learned behavior, possibly still being reinforced?
May I have your thoughts on this?
The result of not doing this would be wasted energy, and would explain why large social settings are often draining. The listener's understanding determines the amount of explanation needed from me. It would explain a tendency to gravitate to some intelligent people who require less energy from me in socializing. It would explain many things.
My understanding is limited, but my questioning and reasoning goes against this (common?) view on introversion in some ways -
Do you have to restate yourself often?Furthermore, each of these four processes can be directed inwardly (introverted), which means it's conceptualized subjectively in terms of the self, or externally (extroverted), which means it's conceptualized objectively in terms of not-self.
Introverted attitudes view the outer world in terms of the self's subjective ideal, so they attempt to make the outer world more like the inner self. Their focus is deeper but less expansive--they can see all the implications of one idea at a time.
Do you do this for the listener's benefit?
Do you think introversion may be a learned behavior, possibly still being reinforced?
May I have your thoughts on this?