When I am dating someone and he asks me typical dating questions I always answer them literally which makes it look like I am really not that into him when I really am.
Sometimes I'm like that too!One time a guy asked me out for lunch and I said "No thank you I brought my lunch." He got a wierd look on his face and walked away. Only later did I realize that the point was to socialize, not go buy lunch. Doh!
That sounds like it might've been a nice relationship. Did you keep in contact with him?I once met a guy and we started talking about philosophy, and important periods in history, and religion almost immediately...would have gone on a date with him but I was already in a relationship.
Yes! That is what I constantly do! I answer questions literally, then I will reflect on what he asked and his reaction to what I said and realize it looked like I blew him off! Then I wonder why he stops approaching me.One time a guy asked me out for lunch and I said "No thank you I brought my lunch." He got a wierd look on his face and walked away. Only later did I realize that the point was to socialize, not go buy lunch. Doh!
HAHAHA! Do you actually believe that the stars position relative your date of birth determines your life and personality? If so, you are a fucking moron.I'm pretty good at dating. I have developed game by studying my older brothers and listening to their advice about women from them and my dad. It's something I had a huge interest in and studied alot about it so I am now pretty good at the whole dating thing. I got a girl now so I don't participate anymore but when I did I cleaned up. Although there was one that got away. She was probably the best looking, most confident of all the dates I've had. Although I was nervous, and we couldn't seem to get any kind of meaningful conversation going (although I tried, it was hard work) she seemed to think I was overly arrogant which I was kind of pleased with in a way. Anything for me is better than coming off as nervous. We were both Scorpios, that's probably the reason why we clashed so heavily. Shame though, she was gorgeous. No word of a lie... This is her
When I meet someone I never put on my very best side! I am always myself, plain and simply me. I actually discuss my flaws openly - you should see the looks I get from guys who don't understand why I don't care to impress!Well, I'm married now, so I don't make any dating mistakes, heh.
I never really did the dating thing. It's pointless to me. Two people who are deceiving each other for several months, only putting forth their very best sides, in order to make the other person like them. It's useless.
I've met most of my girlfriends through acquaintances, and it was just a situation where friends were hanging out and it progressed from there. Even with my wife; her cousin was my neighbor, and my neighbor and I hung out almost daily, and became great friends, and one day her cousin came over to visit, and the rest is history. Dating is just stupid, unless you're both 100% genuine from the get-go, and how often does that happen?
wow man, you sound like you'd make for one unpleasant dateI am not much into dating. All the women I know that meet my intellectual standards do not meet my physical and vice versa. The thing that finally turned my off dating and taking advice from friends is like 6 months ago my friend told me her best friend was into me. Her friend was not quite up to par on my physical standards and in some ways she met my mental standards but failed in others but I decided I shouldn't waste opportunities and asked her out despite my misgivings.
On all our dates she would not shut up about things that made no sense and were completely uninteresting so I ended up just making out with her to make her shut up all the time. She would not let me progress past making out even after a month and a half of dating so I finally just up front asked her what she thought about sex and she gave no reply then broke up with me a few days later because I scared her.
Then I am talking to her friend a few days later and it turns out that she did in fact not have a 'crush' on me in the first place and I went through all this crap for naught. I will forgo dating until such a time as I meet a woman who fully meets all my unreasonable standards.