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I've noticed a lot of NT's that come off as emotionally cold. Do you come off as cold?
You already know the answer to that question for me... :crazy: But apparently around places like church and school people seem to flock to me as well as like me because I help them out with things such as giving them a spare dollar for lunch. It's quite odd, I like making things happen and helping out friends of mine but they seem to think I'm mr. pure for doing so.... I've got them in the palm of my hands.... MUHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!I've noticed a lot of NT's that come off as emotionally cold. Do you come off as cold?
Hmm, I guess that's one of the main advantages of being a feeler vs. a thinker. I always come off as extremely warm and kind to people. I also come off as easily approachable. However, it is a double edged sword, because I also often come off as soft, cowardly, unmanly, and to quote some of the local gangstas that attended my high school......"A bitch ass, mark ass, trick ass, pussy ass......N*gga!I would say its one of the biggest dilemas I have, I try to be engaging and sound supportive/interested/caring,yet I come across as cold and calculating. The external impression does not mimic the internal intent. It fucks me up no end, I just cant get the two to meet. It frustrates the shit out of me and gets all unnesscarily awkward.
I've had this issue as well. I think that some people think that because I don't often reveal or broadcast this side of myself, especially not without solicitation, then it's not there. Then when I do decide to, feel that I am being expressive, yet others don't feel the same way or pick up on it. Or doubt my sincerity.I would say its one of the biggest dilemas I have, I try to be engaging and sound supportive/interested/caring,yet I come across as cold and calculating. The external impression does not mimic the internal intent.