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I'm curious how fast my fellow INFJs reply to messages. I used to be anxious about replying late so I would always reply fast and keep my email folder very neat and as empty as possible. ''ASAP'' was my mantra.

Nowadays, I might postpone replying for even a day, depending on a person. To a partner I reply pretty much instantly but depending on the level of the friendship, it might take me 15min, several hours, a day or multiple days to reply.
Also, my email folder is an absolute mess yet it doesn't really bother me. ''Mmm I'm gonna check it later'' is now my mantra.
 

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I think it depends on the nature of the message. If it's a casual message with no real urgency, it might take me a while(from several hours to several weeks<lol>) to respond. Now, if it's a business message, or something that needs to be dealt with urgently I do it within seconds, or minutes from the time that I received it.
 

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Slow due to lack of energy caused by depression, and I always feel bad for my late replies.
 

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Depends on the urgency and if I want to deal with the person or situation but my default is "As late as possible.. possibly the day after I was supposed to reply and my landlord is now angry"
 

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In a lot of cases, slowly, since I'll spend a while editing it and wondering how I could better convey the message to the person.
 
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