Do you view the world & yourself through the eyes of others?

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jasonm

Discussion Starter · Aug 2, 2010

I – like most of you I believe – have a strong sensitivity to the opinions and feelings others hold, but I'm especially sensitive to the ones I feel they hold about me.

As a result, I strive, occasionally to my disadvantage, to maintain a positive image in the eyes of others - often viewing myself through their eyes. Though I’ve learned to recognize when I do this and thus have some degree of control over it, I still can't help this tendency. Most often it works as something positive. However, sometimes it is also a source of great irritation; there are times when I just want to see the world through my eyes not theirs. But, alas, I must also see through the eyes of others'.

Do any of you also find you do this often?
If so, how do you feel about it?
Have you learned to recognize it?
Have you learned anything from it?

I’m curious to see if this is common among INFPs.

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Angel1412kaitou

· #14 · Aug 2, 2010

It is extremely helpful, yet becomes annoying if done too much for too long.
I haven't tried to actually "turn it off" if that's possible, but whenever I'm overwhelmed, I run off somewhere far away so traces of others' existance no longer pelt me with their various conflicting ideas and values.
It's still bothering me though.
Argh.

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