Even though it is fairly unrealistic that I could be the only one for someone romantically, I find that it is a desire that I have to be that person in a relationship. The object of desire maybe. Is this kind of a universal thing? Even though, yes, an individual could possibly be happy in a relationship with many different potential people. Even though you may or will be attracted to other people outside of the relationship. Do you want to have boundaries for this? Feel free to elaborate if you'd like or expand on various questions...How do you justify and maintain that your relationship be steady? Is there some kind of level of differentiation? Perhaps you do not agree.