As long as the people I care about like me, I'm content (that said, if someone I care about didn't like me, but I did, that'd be fine). However I imagine if no one "accepted" me, I would direct my attention outwards. Do you need social acceptance? Not in an efficiency sense, but in a personal sense. As in, if people respected you and did what you said but didn't like you, would you care? Is this an Fi vs Fe thing, or is that irrelevant?