1) Nope never. Only reason anyone says that is to show they're interested.
2) Ye if I was friends with them why not?
Better point to make, if you're interested in the guy then stop looking for confirmation, go with your gut (Ni) and just roll with it don't be so bloody scared :laughing:
I would appreciate some input, especially from INFJ guys.
1) Under what circumstances would you ever tell a girl "thinking of you"? Would you say this to a casual friend, or would you only typically say it to indicate romantic interest. I got a letter from a "friend" who I have a hunch may like me, and he mentioned that he was thinking of me.
I would only say this to someone if I was serious about pursuing them. For me, it has very blatant romantic undertones, so I'm incredibly parsimonious in saying it, out of fear of leading someone on. If he's anything like me, you're in the clear roud:
2) Would you keep up a long-distance email correspondence (for instance, 1 year) with a girl if you did not like her romantically?
Well personally I'm terrible at keeping in touch with people, so for me to make a conscious effort to keep in touch with a girl would guarantee that she means a great deal to me. Whether that be platonically or romantically I can't be sure, but the only girl I've remained in touch with was a serious crush of mine.
Thanks for any tips!