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1. Click on this link: Flickr: Explore! Look at the random photo for about 30 seconds. Copy and paste it here, and write about your impression of it.
sorry can't post links but I'll describe it....
I like black and white photos to start off with. It's very minimalist which I also like. It seems to be taken in a desert with what looks like sculptures? I'm not sure what they are - the name for the picture is The Body Beautiful which I don't see how it relates. I like the picture though, I'd hang it on my wall.
2. You are with a group of people in a car, heading to a different town to see your favourite band/artist/musician. Suddenly, the car breaks down for an unknown reason in the middle of nowhere. What are your initial thoughts? What are your outward reactions?
Initial thoughts would be "Oh great, the car is broken". I'd probably laugh out of surprise. I know nothing about cars but I would try and sort it out despite my lack of knowledge, I'd probably end up googling it all before calling up a service though to come fix the car . I'd also be slightly annoyed we might miss the concert.
3. You somehow make it to the concert. The driver wants to go to the afterparty that was announced (and assure you they won't drink so they can drive back later). How do you feel about this party? What do you do?
Depends on what the party is like and whether I feel like drinking. I prefer smaller groups so I can actually talk and not be swamped by louder personalities. I like dancing though so that's more so what I'd be keen to do over everything. If everyone wants to go, I'd go along - majority rules I guess in this situation and I usually enjoy myself.
4. On the drive back, your friends are talking. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward reaction? What do you outwardly say?
I know what my beliefs are but I'm open to them being challenged. Inwardly I'd be like "what", as if I were muttering it under my breath but outwardly I'd happily debate them on it. I enjoy questioning people about things that are different to the way I think.
5. What would you do if you actually saw/experienced something that clashes with your previous beliefs, experiences, and habits?
I'm assuming these would be pretty much established already so it would take some adjusting if this clash was actually for the better but I can't really say how I'd react, it's never really happened before. I think I'd just be slightly confused but again, open to this happening to me.
6. What are some of your most important values? How did you come about determining them? How can they change?
Not in order but probably humour, kindness, loyalty, trust, intelligence and creativity. These are what I like most about myself and it's what I enjoy in people I know. I'm not sure how they can change because I feel like they're all positive values and don't really need to be changed.
7. a) What about your personality most distinguishes you from everyone else? b) If you could change one thing about you personality, what would it be? Why?
a) I don't know - I'm not exactly different to everyone else. I guess with my friends I'm a lot less emotional than them. I'm pretty patient unlike other people. My sense of humour is different (witty and sarcastic) rather than just silly and meme-y (not all the time though, I'm not dissing my friends). I constantly get told I ask "why?" all the time - perhaps more curious than some of my friends?
b) I wish I was more outgoing - for example tonight I was at a dinner party and I had some funny comments to make but I'd be talked over by someone much louder and I couldn't make them. I've been told I'm quiet before which bugs me a bit because I'd like to be heard.
8. How do you treat hunches or gut feelings? In what situations are they most often triggered?
I'm not that big on hunches or gut feelings. I get them but I don't really know how to treat them because they're not really based on anything but a feeling, it's not really that tangible. I usually base things off logic or something with reasoning. They're most triggered in situations where I'm confused about something or don't immediately know what to do.
9. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?
a) I like being with my friends and family, I like making videos, taking photos and writing. I like playing sport.
b) Bigger events where I have to give 110% energy and be as loud as everyone else because I'm more quiet.
10. What do you repress about your outward behavior or internal thought process when around others? Why?
I feel like part of the reason I'm quiet is that I repress saying things for fear of being judged by others. I'd say them around my family or Tweet them or something but I'm a bit different when it comes to others.
I also repress affection - or I don't know whether I like it. I don't really like hugs, I'm not every touchy, I'm horrible with emotions and comforting people (don't ever ask me to do that because I need to offer advice to give hugs) and I think I repress that more when I'm around people.
Feel free to ask me questions. Thanks guys!
sorry can't post links but I'll describe it....
I like black and white photos to start off with. It's very minimalist which I also like. It seems to be taken in a desert with what looks like sculptures? I'm not sure what they are - the name for the picture is The Body Beautiful which I don't see how it relates. I like the picture though, I'd hang it on my wall.
2. You are with a group of people in a car, heading to a different town to see your favourite band/artist/musician. Suddenly, the car breaks down for an unknown reason in the middle of nowhere. What are your initial thoughts? What are your outward reactions?
Initial thoughts would be "Oh great, the car is broken". I'd probably laugh out of surprise. I know nothing about cars but I would try and sort it out despite my lack of knowledge, I'd probably end up googling it all before calling up a service though to come fix the car . I'd also be slightly annoyed we might miss the concert.
3. You somehow make it to the concert. The driver wants to go to the afterparty that was announced (and assure you they won't drink so they can drive back later). How do you feel about this party? What do you do?
Depends on what the party is like and whether I feel like drinking. I prefer smaller groups so I can actually talk and not be swamped by louder personalities. I like dancing though so that's more so what I'd be keen to do over everything. If everyone wants to go, I'd go along - majority rules I guess in this situation and I usually enjoy myself.
4. On the drive back, your friends are talking. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward reaction? What do you outwardly say?
I know what my beliefs are but I'm open to them being challenged. Inwardly I'd be like "what", as if I were muttering it under my breath but outwardly I'd happily debate them on it. I enjoy questioning people about things that are different to the way I think.
5. What would you do if you actually saw/experienced something that clashes with your previous beliefs, experiences, and habits?
I'm assuming these would be pretty much established already so it would take some adjusting if this clash was actually for the better but I can't really say how I'd react, it's never really happened before. I think I'd just be slightly confused but again, open to this happening to me.
6. What are some of your most important values? How did you come about determining them? How can they change?
Not in order but probably humour, kindness, loyalty, trust, intelligence and creativity. These are what I like most about myself and it's what I enjoy in people I know. I'm not sure how they can change because I feel like they're all positive values and don't really need to be changed.
7. a) What about your personality most distinguishes you from everyone else? b) If you could change one thing about you personality, what would it be? Why?
a) I don't know - I'm not exactly different to everyone else. I guess with my friends I'm a lot less emotional than them. I'm pretty patient unlike other people. My sense of humour is different (witty and sarcastic) rather than just silly and meme-y (not all the time though, I'm not dissing my friends). I constantly get told I ask "why?" all the time - perhaps more curious than some of my friends?
b) I wish I was more outgoing - for example tonight I was at a dinner party and I had some funny comments to make but I'd be talked over by someone much louder and I couldn't make them. I've been told I'm quiet before which bugs me a bit because I'd like to be heard.
8. How do you treat hunches or gut feelings? In what situations are they most often triggered?
I'm not that big on hunches or gut feelings. I get them but I don't really know how to treat them because they're not really based on anything but a feeling, it's not really that tangible. I usually base things off logic or something with reasoning. They're most triggered in situations where I'm confused about something or don't immediately know what to do.
9. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?
a) I like being with my friends and family, I like making videos, taking photos and writing. I like playing sport.
b) Bigger events where I have to give 110% energy and be as loud as everyone else because I'm more quiet.
10. What do you repress about your outward behavior or internal thought process when around others? Why?
I feel like part of the reason I'm quiet is that I repress saying things for fear of being judged by others. I'd say them around my family or Tweet them or something but I'm a bit different when it comes to others.
I also repress affection - or I don't know whether I like it. I don't really like hugs, I'm not every touchy, I'm horrible with emotions and comforting people (don't ever ask me to do that because I need to offer advice to give hugs) and I think I repress that more when I'm around people.
Feel free to ask me questions. Thanks guys!