It's very odd. Around some people I am *something*. I interact with them as an equal, or even sometimes, I can tell they perceive me as something more.
Around other people, they couldn't give a crap about me. This seems to be normal guys that don't like me. Guys who like to party, screw various women, and repeat. I can't say that I like them either, but something about our personality dynamic is oil and water.
What sucks is that I tend to only meet those kind of guys and have trouble forming any friendships as a result. I'm just generally cold too, that's part of it.
How does an INFJ end up so cold?
My Fe seems to give me no benefit because I only bring it out around friends, not in social gatherings.
Around other people, they couldn't give a crap about me. This seems to be normal guys that don't like me. Guys who like to party, screw various women, and repeat. I can't say that I like them either, but something about our personality dynamic is oil and water.
What sucks is that I tend to only meet those kind of guys and have trouble forming any friendships as a result. I'm just generally cold too, that's part of it.
How does an INFJ end up so cold?
My Fe seems to give me no benefit because I only bring it out around friends, not in social gatherings.
