I have a problem. I tend to create very intense relationships with people whom i find 'intense', they dont come around all that often but when they do i snatch onto them. My problem is that when i dont have any 'intense' relationships i feel so empty and depressed and well...bored. These relationships arent always so healthy cause they usually tend to lead to obsession which is torture! So what do i do? feel depressed or feel tortured? i tried to fill the intensity with music and art and creativity but nothing beats the actual human connection. help!!!