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Hi there my fellow enfj-ers!
I am fairly newish to all of this (last 6 months ish) and I trying to get better at understanding myself and my ENFJ potential pitfalls. Whilst I can easily identify with certain aspects, I am stuggling to find practical ways to either stop doing them or stop the pitfalls from having an impact on my general state. So I was pondering if any if you more wise ENFJ-ers might have any practical solutions to the following issues:
1. I find it hard not to be a perfectionist - whilst this can be an excellent quality I am finding it hard not to burn myself out and feel emotionally drained. However I dont want to loose my drive to excel but I want to learn not to push myself over emotional cliffs by accident!
2. I recognise that people are what make me tick - however there are times when I have to be on my own and this gets me really down and often for no reason. I want to be more self reliant and not so reliant on people but when I have no people around me I just feel deflated. I find this also makes me really needy to those around me who care about me.
If anyone has any solutions or ideas how to tackle these issues it would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks
I am fairly newish to all of this (last 6 months ish) and I trying to get better at understanding myself and my ENFJ potential pitfalls. Whilst I can easily identify with certain aspects, I am stuggling to find practical ways to either stop doing them or stop the pitfalls from having an impact on my general state. So I was pondering if any if you more wise ENFJ-ers might have any practical solutions to the following issues:
1. I find it hard not to be a perfectionist - whilst this can be an excellent quality I am finding it hard not to burn myself out and feel emotionally drained. However I dont want to loose my drive to excel but I want to learn not to push myself over emotional cliffs by accident!
2. I recognise that people are what make me tick - however there are times when I have to be on my own and this gets me really down and often for no reason. I want to be more self reliant and not so reliant on people but when I have no people around me I just feel deflated. I find this also makes me really needy to those around me who care about me.
If anyone has any solutions or ideas how to tackle these issues it would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks