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Question for the ENFJs or anyone else that some insight on this question: how do you like to interact at parties or in large group gatherings? how do you like to celebrate your birthday?
I prefer mixing between various different friends when I go out. I also like meeting new people, and would feel pretty confident talking to someone for the first time without having a mutual friend introduce us. I prefer talking to the quiet types that are off in the corner, or just hanging out in listening between conversations. If I find someone captivating I don't mind chatting with them for the majority of the night getting to know them as much as I can. I generally prefer more in depth conversation, then surface level 'niceties' ; but can manage to do both if required. I often find myself reviewing my conversations with people who I found interesting and profound. Especially do this the next day. I really like 'introverted' guys with high "F" or "P" and seem to gravitate to the "N" types; they freak me out though cause they tend to be sooooooooo smart!!
As for birthdays, I rather spend them with my family over a nicely prepared meal. I don't like fuss or to be the centre of attention (no way you won't see me wearing a crown on my birthday or dancing on tables!). If friends get together, I do much more spontaneously and don't plan anything special; just go and have some drinks. I rather not even bring up the fact it's my birthday, rather just have people come together. I sincerely appreciate well written cards or even a thoughtfully composed e-mail over a drunken night!
Thoughts?
I prefer mixing between various different friends when I go out. I also like meeting new people, and would feel pretty confident talking to someone for the first time without having a mutual friend introduce us. I prefer talking to the quiet types that are off in the corner, or just hanging out in listening between conversations. If I find someone captivating I don't mind chatting with them for the majority of the night getting to know them as much as I can. I generally prefer more in depth conversation, then surface level 'niceties' ; but can manage to do both if required. I often find myself reviewing my conversations with people who I found interesting and profound. Especially do this the next day. I really like 'introverted' guys with high "F" or "P" and seem to gravitate to the "N" types; they freak me out though cause they tend to be sooooooooo smart!!
As for birthdays, I rather spend them with my family over a nicely prepared meal. I don't like fuss or to be the centre of attention (no way you won't see me wearing a crown on my birthday or dancing on tables!). If friends get together, I do much more spontaneously and don't plan anything special; just go and have some drinks. I rather not even bring up the fact it's my birthday, rather just have people come together. I sincerely appreciate well written cards or even a thoughtfully composed e-mail over a drunken night!
Thoughts?