[Happy about Nothing.]

My thing is aslong as no one says anything to my face then its alright.

I feel like I've heard this before from another ENFJ. I really don't get how this makes it alright, although I guess it is less intense, it just means the person is more of a coward, lol.

 

[Happy about Nothing.]

Now the interesting thing is Fe makes you "merge with the outer world" more, so your tendency to care about what other people think might create less immediate internal conflict -- the Fi type can't merge as such, only put on an external face that masks that their judgments are still their own self-fantasy so to speak. But then you look back and realize all the introspecting and self-differentiation the Fi type did en route to their judgments, and you realize hey, maybe my Fe tendencies made me just a bit too smooth, and merge with the outer world too quickly, and lose touch with what I deeply feel myself.

Could that mean that for an Fe user, lack of merging with their inner world could potentially cause external conflict, in the same way....but opposite?