Is it common for ENFJ's to analyse the crap out of everything and to sate the negatives they see in stuff. Because I do it a lot...I think I do it in more of I'm just vocalizing something I see that should be changed but it just comes off as me being negative. I had a friend say I was negative and it annoyed them. I know I used to be very negative as a kid like horribly negative but I thought for the most part I was past that. But my friends comment makes me feel like maybe I have improved as much as much as I thought. And I over think everything and they said that also annoys them. I over analyse so much it's sad. Any suggestions on how to stop? And is this uncommon behavior for ENFJ's?