ENFP 4w3 newbie - greetings to all!

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Aelisya

Discussion Starter · Apr 7, 2020

Hi everyone!
I’ve been doing a lot of reading on enneagram types lately (I am a 4 after all) and this forum has been a goldmine - so I eventually decided to join in the conversation!

As I said in the title, I’m an ENFP (mistyped myself as an ENTP for quite some time) and a 4w3 so/sp. I find the enneagram system particularly interesting because of its complexity. It took me way longer to figure out my type than it did on the Myers-Briggs system (I considered so many - 7, 2, 9, even 8!), but I’m glad cause now I understand it better and I love it.

I am in a relationship with a clear 9w1, possibly ISTP, which is driving me a bit crazy lately, and it’s been incredibly useful to read all the insight about that too!

I’d never tire of talking about myself, but I think that’s more than enough for an introduction! :tongue:

I hope we can be friends, I swear I’m nice (most of the time)! :heart:

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tanstaafl28

· #2 · Apr 7, 2020

@Aelisya

WELCOME!

I am a Host on PerC. Allow me to be your guide. Please let me know how I can best assist you. Any questions or concerns you may contact me. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help!

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Eugenia Shepherd

· #3 · Apr 7, 2020

Well hello and welcome!
Hope you enjoy your time with us here.

roud:

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Aelisya

Discussion Starter · #4 · Apr 7, 2020

Thank you both! I’ve been lurking for some time before joining, so I’m already fairly familiar with the forum

Here’s to good times

erc3:

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Surreal Breakfast

· #5 · Apr 8, 2020

I'm also an so, 4, & ENFP too, just not sure whether I'm so/sp or so/sx, haha! Anyway, welcome to PerC; enjoy your time here!

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Aelisya

Discussion Starter · #6 · Apr 8, 2020

Surreal Breakfast said:
I'm also an so, 4, & ENFP too, just not sure whether I'm so/sp or so/sx, haha! Anyway, welcome to PerC; enjoy your time here!

I’m not 100% sure either, but I believe I was a so/sx when I was younger and have now settled on a so/sp stacking (probably also due to my bf’s calming influence). I don’t challenge others on a regular basis to prove (mostly to myself) my superiority like I used to do, and only occasionally slip back into it.

It’s awesome to meet like-minded people!

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Surreal Breakfast

· #7 · Apr 8, 2020

Aelisya said:
I’m not 100% sure either, but I believe I was a so/sx when I was younger and have now settled on a so/sp stacking (probably also due to my bf’s calming influence). I don’t challenge others on a regular basis to prove (mostly to myself) my superiority like I used to do, and only occasionally slip back into it.

It’s awesome to meet like-minded people!

Oh, okay! I think I might settle just on so until I learn more about it (I'm veeeery new to IVs).
Yip, haha, always an awesome thing! I go and do art with lots of other people at a studio in town and there are some amazing artists there who I'm sure are ENFP or something similar.

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Aelisya

Discussion Starter · #8 · Apr 8, 2020

Surreal Breakfast said:
Oh, okay! I think I might settle just on so until I learn more about it (I'm veeeery new to IVs).
Yip, haha, always an awesome thing! I go and do art with lots of other people at a studio in town and there are some amazing artists there who I'm sure are ENFP or something similar.

Oh I am new to this too, but I spent the majority of my waking time studying it over the last few days :laughing:
I am an artist too! I mean, it shouldn’t be so surprising probably, but it's still exciting haha

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Surreal Breakfast

· #9 · Apr 8, 2020

HAHA! I misread your post as saying when you were younger you thought you were so/sx, but now think so/sp. I reread it and now I get it haha! I took a test and got 39 so, 29 sx, and 28 sp... LMAO. No matter how much I read up on it, it doesn't seem like either one suits me well enough.

Lol! I think some people just do art because they want to, but we ENFPs NEED to do art xD It's in the ENFP's blood!

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