Look up "Double Dream Hands" on YouTube xD that's what it's from, lolWell, I'd assume they would probably be a little more likely to avoid conflict? I'm not sure. But I'd love to know about the gif in your signature...I can't stop watching it. Is he trying to be funny or is it like an instructional video for cheesy dancing? Haha!
I can relate much to what you said here- especially about the numb self to conflict. I'm a 7 though( thought I was a 9 for 2 years )Well, I initially mistyped as a Nine (9w1) due to that fact that I'm a phobic Six (seriously, they're so similar it's scary). But I think ENFP and Nine go well together. I know that it can make a more mellow, relaxed ENFP who's more "go with the flow" and becomes the diplomat a lot. ^_^ They'd numb themselves to conflict, though, like other Nines. I can never numb myself to conflict. I feel a tugging, like I've got to fix what's going on. There's a pressure there. Just adding that tidbit in case you're a Six in disguise. XD
I think an ENFP type Nine makes for an emotionally stable person. I love Nines.
It took me 2.5 years to figure out which type I wasI have no idea what my enneagram is. I've taken the test twice and gotten different results, and both times they offered multiple results. None of the options stood out to me.
As a 9 I totally understand this statement. It's a common issue for me - to be unaware of what I'm feeling. Maybe I've repressed the feeling(s) too long, maybe I fear they are "bad" feelings and I need to be "good" all the time, maybe I'm afraid I will change if these come to the surface (or someone else will), or maybe I just feel too overwhelmed already and don't need to feel anything else or there's a chance I will spiral.I still express tons of surface emotions that are extreme and whatnot, but my deep emotions are extremely difficult to alter, and sometimes even difficult to feel and be aware of.