I am an ENFP and have a big issue asserting myself. I can always see a million sides to everything and can be very indecisive. Since I am hyper aware of others feelings and want everyone to like me, what others think/feel can make it hard for me to know my own opinion. I can become passive aggressive in close relationships because I feel like I never have input. I can't make up my mind as fast as others and instead get swept up in wanting others - who HAVE formed a strong opinion - to be happy and never figure out how I really feel. Eventually this causes me to be resentful because I feel like I am never accommodated, but of course this is hard for others to do since I never express, or even decide, what I really think!
Any ENFPs get exhausted with being like this and learn to determine and assert your own opinions? Is this a maturity thing? How did you grow past this?