That about describes me a lot of the time. I'm really relaxed but when it's a school or work deadline I become a Man of Action. Surprisingly, this isn't rare. "Please Understand Me" lists this as a curious paradox for the ENFP. Especially if no one else in a group steps up as leader, or the project is going to hell.I laid back doer personality type.And I'm an ENFP. Do those match up?