[Benakofthehills]

Hey guys, I'm a teenage ENFP, and I'm on this page to get help to find myself and relationships with others. I feel really alone in my journey to know the world as a whole, and from such atrocites, my relationships, both intimate and friendly, my disciplines, my schedules, my faith, and my self-image suffer. Please help????? Thank you!

 

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[Nevermind_me]

Greetings @Benakofthehills

Yeah, teenage years and those tempestuous tides are a wild ride, but you will find help and support here. Welcome to PerC

 

[missushoney]

aww. How cute. *hugs* roud:

People on here can offer support, advice and all of that good stuff but if you are really trying to find yourself and be comfortable in your own skin, it's something only you can really do. I'm still working on this myself, but I find that listening to an app called "brainwave tuner" at night helps me to relax and feel more focused on what it is I am and want to be. another one i use is called "nap time" or something like that. it has a bunch of sounds like airplane cabin, fire, white noise, crickets, river and stuff like that to put you in a comfy place when you go to sleep.

But with that in mind, why don't you start by writing out some of the things you think are strengths and some you think are weaknesses about yourself. Then write what you see as your goals in life. Write these all in a journal or some place private, not here. Then come back and tell me anything important you noticed in your journaling. These goals can be made up or real, I'm just trying to get you to look at what things are important to you. When you know what those things are, you can get closer to making a career/life plan out of them.

If you are like me and have no idea what you are and are just confused about yourself, I think you should start with the brainwave tuner and also look on youtube for some videos that can help you meditate and look deeper in your mind. I would search for "life path meditation" "guided meditation" "meditation music" ("love meditation" if you feel you're having problems in the relationship area) anything that is 30-60 minutes long at least. You don't have to be in a trance or be great at doing it, but if you can relax and focus on the thing most troubling to you it could be of help.

 

[stone100674]

Hello and welcome to Per C

 

[The King Of Dreams]

Welcome to the cafe!

 

[BrutallySerene]

Welcome!

Do spill you doubts as you wish. The PerC members are more than eager to answer them.

 

[Stratocaster]

Welcome! The teenage years can be tough for anyone I would imagine but I'm sure you'll find plenty of useful help here.

 

[Bear987]

Hello and welcome to the forum; see you out there!

 

[ruth2ten]

Welcome to PerC!
Enjoy your time around the forums!
Cheers!

 

[bluedaisy]

I suggest keep reading about your type. That's what I did and that really made me feel understood and that I'm not alone.
Anyways, welcome!!! In also a teen and found this whole mbti thing really helps me understand myself.
Hope it does the same for you!!☀

 

[MindBodySpiritSeeker]

Welcome
I remember my teen years OI! But everything in life takes time and time is always on your side if you let it be.
Finding yourself is the biggest quest in ones life and we all go through it. Everyone here at Personality Cafe are king friendly and a good support.

When you have that moment of eureka I found it and it was in me all this time that is a great feeling.

Good luck hun! :kitteh: