I think all our ENFP males have mentioned this trait. Though, I mean intelligent in what way?Attraction
Intelligence. That's it in a nutshell lol.
I feel like this ENFP and I have this level of rapport. Especially the trust component. We are really building on that. I would say, more so him than me (he is working on some "trust issues").Initially, physical attraction is important. Further attraction is then established if the girl is nice, intelligent and easy-going.
For my interest to maintain, it is important that we work well together sexually and that we communicate well (I like someone I can trust who I also can bounce off ideas on) and can trust each other.
Cool! Your ENFJ friend sounds fab, of course He told me he likes me because "I seem to appreciate him for who he is" ah! beautiful! :blushed:I'm speaking from experience with an ENFP, at least that's what I think he loves about me, is the fact that I accept him and appreciate him, and also I'm pretty crazy as well, so I doubt we'd ever get bored with each other. But then again, I"m not ENFJ... although I did have a ENFJ girl friend... you ladies are very entertaining and fun PLUS you got the more sensitive side which I lack, so I don't see how you could have any problems with an ENFP (judging by types only, i don't know the guy).
That's all subjective. I like women who have an expertise and passion. An ability to talk about your passions coherently. Intelligence also means being able to construct coherent opinions. I enjoy a stimulating debate, so the latter is very important. In short, they need to have a well rounded knowledge base and keep up in conversation with me. I know that keeping up with Ne doms can tire the hell out of some people.I think all our ENFP males have mentioned this trait. Though, I mean intelligent in what way?
I have a different taste when it comes to the intelligence that I find attractive in a partner. I don't like experts, I love generalists. You could be a genius in your field but that means nothing to me. I care about your ability to have an intelligent discussion about topics you know very little about. Can you learn during a conversation well enough to contribute something meaningful and interesting?I think all our ENFP males have mentioned this trait. Though, I mean intelligent in what way?
Depends what you mean by to mind games. If you play with my emotions, even in jest, you have betrayed my trust. I will not be amused, I will feel violated.what about mind games? intellectual matches of wit and calculation to trap the enemy mentally?