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Hi ENFPs,

(welcome the ladies as well, looking for the guys to answer this one (so few ENFP guys on the thread). Though I do look forward to your insights as well because I know they'll be just as wonderful!).

Question: what attracts the ENFP male and what maintains your interest in the long run?

An ENFP male confirmed feelings of romantic interest in me and told me tonight that he dreamt about his last day and town and this time he had dreamt he kissed me before he had left from (in reality, we only hugged). :blushed:

Also, what are you general thoughts on the ENFP male and ENFJ female compatibility? Witnessed IRL? The ENFP in question is a low introvert, with moderate N & F functions, and a low P. I am also a low E, with a high N, mid F, and mid to high J. I don't know how much of that really matters....

Thanks fellow ENFs!:happy:
 
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Attraction
Intelligence. That's it in a nutshell lol.
I think all our ENFP males have mentioned this trait. Though, I mean intelligent in what way?
 

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Initially, physical attraction is important. Further attraction is then established if the girl is nice, intelligent and easy-going.

For my interest to maintain, it is important that we work well together sexually and that we communicate well (I like someone I can trust who I also can bounce off ideas on) and can trust each other.
I feel like this ENFP and I have this level of rapport. Especially the trust component. We are really building on that. I would say, more so him than me (he is working on some "trust issues").
 
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I'm speaking from experience with an ENFP, at least that's what I think he loves about me, is the fact that I accept him and appreciate him, and also I'm pretty crazy as well, so I doubt we'd ever get bored with each other. But then again, I"m not ENFJ... although I did have a ENFJ girl friend... you ladies are very entertaining and fun PLUS you got the more sensitive side which I lack, so I don't see how you could have any problems with an ENFP (judging by types only, i don't know the guy).
Cool! Your ENFJ friend sounds fab, of course ;) He told me he likes me because "I seem to appreciate him for who he is" ah! beautiful! :blushed:
 
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