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ENFP males: what attracts you and most of all, what maintains your interest?

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(welcome the ladies as well, looking for the guys to answer this one (so few ENFP guys on the thread). Though I do look forward to your insights as well because I know they'll be just as wonderful!).

Question: what attracts the ENFP male and what maintains your interest in the long run?

An ENFP male confirmed feelings of romantic interest in me and told me tonight that he dreamt about his last day and town and this time he had dreamt he kissed me before he had left from (in reality, we only hugged). :blushed:

Also, what are you general thoughts on the ENFP male and ENFJ female compatibility? Witnessed IRL? The ENFP in question is a low introvert, with moderate N & F functions, and a low P. I am also a low E, with a high N, mid F, and mid to high J. I don't know how much of that really matters....

Thanks fellow ENFs!:happy:
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Intelligence. That's it in a nutshell lol.

I think an ENFJ would be very compatible with an ENFP male; but you'd need to be able to put up with our random flights of fancy.
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I think all our ENFP males have mentioned this trait. Though, I mean intelligent in what way?
That's all subjective. I like women who have an expertise and passion. An ability to talk about your passions coherently. Intelligence also means being able to construct coherent opinions. I enjoy a stimulating debate, so the latter is very important. In short, they need to have a well rounded knowledge base and keep up in conversation with me. I know that keeping up with Ne doms can tire the hell out of some people.
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