A very attractive thing about ENFJ's is that they are able to match my enthusiasm.
I have a different taste when it comes to the intelligence that I find attractive in a partner. I don't like experts, I love generalists. You could be a genius in your field but that means nothing to me. I care about your ability to have an intelligent discussion about topics you know very little about. Can you learn during a conversation well enough to contribute something meaningful and interesting?I think all our ENFP males have mentioned this trait. Though, I mean intelligent in what way?