I'm sorry to hear that; how did you come to this conclusion? Obviously, not every type has static preferences
And I do feel I should apologize on behalf of a lot of the INFJ men out there. My ENTP best friend tells me that while she feels that an INFJ is her best match, it's VERY hard for her to find one who isn't loaded down with suicidal self-esteem issues. Apparently I'm the most grounded INFJ she knows (I take that as an immense compliment).
yeah, you guys can be pretty emo. Lol.
No, I don't think it's that they are unhealthy or anything. I just see that we have issues TOGETHER. Honestly, I have no idea why they drive me insane like they do. I guess because I know more about me and why I tick than they do, and they have a hard time accepting that. If anything, they resign to agree to disagree on that topic, but I don't think they will ever admit that I have more insight to me and the way I function than they do. But in their defense, I know their job ain't easy. I'm like a wild bucking bronco.
I've also noticed that they want to tell me what to do and stuff. That doesn't sit well with me. They often get my Te bitch slap because of this. :tongue: And they worry about squirrels too much. And they can be a real downer. But you know, I'm high maintenance. So no wonder they're down. It's just that I don't like being "down" all that much. It's not comfy for me there.
Oh yeah, but the way they get concerned about me is really quite beautiful and intoxicating. But they can do that as friends, too right?
Now let me ask you something. What's up with INFJ men and their texts? Holy crap. You love it, right? Not voice convo..hell no.... Texting it is! Don't you guys ever drive? It makes it so hard to text you my life back when I'm driving!! Anyway, from what I notice, you sure love to punch your little buttons and then send :laughing:
Oh yeah, so I have had a best INFJ guy friend for about three years. Just yesterday he told me "The thing is you and I think we know what's best for everybody." SEE! Right there. He doesn't seem to want to understand that only
I know what's best for everybody? See? It's issues like these and more. :laughing:
Dude, how did you end up in friend zone with your ENTP? She says you're "grounded" and all...