everyone knows ENFPs are dripping with game.. it's just a pity that it's always accidental and often not when you're actually trying :crying:
but i wanna know how ENFPs attract their special someone into their lives.. when it's intentional. from my own experimenting and what i've seen from others there are a few different ways in which guys attract women-
being composed- the kind of guy who takes everything at his own pace, and gives off that sense of mystery
being witty- generally being hilarious, coming up with a joke for every situation- although i've met some guys who only do "guy funny" not "girl funny" which obviously doesn't work.
being enthusiastic/eccentric- i get the feeling a lot of ENFPs will be this one. i don't overdo this one but i've seen people who do and have it work.
teasing- the easiest way in my opinion, just tease about something inconsequential, but with a smile on your face.
being adventurous- just being fun, starting adventures
being nice- not being a "nice guy" mind, being nice on your own terms, and not even to her especially. being approachable is a better term.
being romantic- having your head in the clouds attracts other people who also have their heads in the clouds
being "normal"- just being regular, making regular jokes, being a regular person
being popular- knowing loads of people. being the guy who can introduce her to loads of people.
there are a few things i've seen other people do which seems to work-
being a manslut- just coming onto people all the time. this obviously works for insecure women/ sluts, which a lot of girls in my town are.. :bored:
doing put downs- like teasing but taking it further, putting other people, including her, down all the time.
being badass- getting in fights, being all testosterony all of the time :angry:
being overly touchy feely very early on- some girls seem to like that.
being drunk/having them drunk.
what sort of personality do you usually have which attracts women? females are welcome to make their offerings too
roud:
(being humble isn't easy in this thread, so new rule: you don't have to be.)
but i wanna know how ENFPs attract their special someone into their lives.. when it's intentional. from my own experimenting and what i've seen from others there are a few different ways in which guys attract women-
being composed- the kind of guy who takes everything at his own pace, and gives off that sense of mystery
being witty- generally being hilarious, coming up with a joke for every situation- although i've met some guys who only do "guy funny" not "girl funny" which obviously doesn't work.
being enthusiastic/eccentric- i get the feeling a lot of ENFPs will be this one. i don't overdo this one but i've seen people who do and have it work.
teasing- the easiest way in my opinion, just tease about something inconsequential, but with a smile on your face.
being adventurous- just being fun, starting adventures
being nice- not being a "nice guy" mind, being nice on your own terms, and not even to her especially. being approachable is a better term.
being romantic- having your head in the clouds attracts other people who also have their heads in the clouds
being "normal"- just being regular, making regular jokes, being a regular person
being popular- knowing loads of people. being the guy who can introduce her to loads of people.
there are a few things i've seen other people do which seems to work-
being a manslut- just coming onto people all the time. this obviously works for insecure women/ sluts, which a lot of girls in my town are.. :bored:
doing put downs- like teasing but taking it further, putting other people, including her, down all the time.
being badass- getting in fights, being all testosterony all of the time :angry:
being overly touchy feely very early on- some girls seem to like that.
being drunk/having them drunk.
what sort of personality do you usually have which attracts women? females are welcome to make their offerings too
(being humble isn't easy in this thread, so new rule: you don't have to be.)