I live with an ENFP who occasionally vents her life and work troubles to me - in other words she just expresses very strong personal emotions in conversations we have. While I can give her some long-term perspective using my Ni I feel that I come off as a bit 'cold' to her using my FeTi judging of situations. So I am wondering what kind of emotional support are ENFPs seeking when they are venting about their troubles to other people? What sort of things should I say that I am apparently not saying? I am just so used to using my Fe that expression of any Fi is really foreign to me. Welp >.<