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I'm curious to see what you guys think about casual sex-- what your definition is (a complete stranger, someone you've only met a few times, anyone you're not in a committed relationship with), if you think it's acceptable, if you've done it, how you've felt about doing it, etc.
I recently had my first "casual" sex encounter, after only hanging out with the guy a few times. Everyone else I've slept with, I was in a serious relationship with, so it was very different for me. I think I have conflicting aspects of my personality that affect this issue - I have a very strong, moral sense of what is right and wrong, so my head says "this isn't moral!" but at the same time, I really wanted to do it, it was very impulsive and when I really want to do something, I tend to just do it... especially when it's something I haven't tried before.
Obviously upbringing/religion/age etc. will play into this just as much as being an ENFP, but I'm curious.
I recently had my first "casual" sex encounter, after only hanging out with the guy a few times. Everyone else I've slept with, I was in a serious relationship with, so it was very different for me. I think I have conflicting aspects of my personality that affect this issue - I have a very strong, moral sense of what is right and wrong, so my head says "this isn't moral!" but at the same time, I really wanted to do it, it was very impulsive and when I really want to do something, I tend to just do it... especially when it's something I haven't tried before.
Obviously upbringing/religion/age etc. will play into this just as much as being an ENFP, but I'm curious.