I don't take criticism well because usually I know exactly what I've done incorrectly or just not very well before they tell me. So when they do say "Er, that was ....*criticise*" I agree. And I feel like shit xD I'm always like... "I'm trying my best! Don't say that to me! I know! SHut up! SHUTUP!!!!!!!!" But I never show it...
I am my own worst critic. If someone else points out something, I have always noticed it first so I don't get angry at the person, I get angry at myself for letting someone else notice that I haven't been perfect. So um. I'm not sure what to make of that, other than I'm obviously a bit hard on myself and a bit too desperate to be ABSOLUTELY PERFECT ALL THE TIME OMG!11!11!
Basically, if I get criticised, my self worth drops through the floor and I go home and cry and get angry because I'm so desperate to be perfect. Even though I know perfection is an ideal and I can only be the best I can be xD
But I don't think that's particularly characteristic for an ENFP. I'm just unhealthy, obsessive and perfectionistic. Loly
I think she realizes that. If any personality type realizes that, the ENFP does. It's more how it's delivered than what is delivered.Umm I don't think that anyone can have a totaly non biased view of them self all the time to the point where you would know exactly what you did wrong at all times EVER. Everyone has blind spots, even you. But, that's okay. NOBODY is perfect! I know that totally sucks to hear.
Umm I don't think that anyone can have a totaly non biased view of them self all the time to the point where you would know exactly what you did wrong at all times EVER. Everyone has blind spots, even you. But, that's okay. NOBODY is perfect! I know that totally sucks to hear.
You will get there eventually! It took me 5 longs years! You can do it!
I know. I said I usually know what I've done and I definitely know nobody's perfect. But my self worth is so low that I feel like the only way I can justify my existence is to be the hardest worker/the nicest person blah blah blah. I have that ROAR I must be the best! thing and always have. I've been trying to change that for years but I don't think I can until I mature a bit more first...
And it's definitely how it's delivered rather than what's delivered!
Are you implying that I take everything personally? Why would I do that ? WHY? :mellow: