[teabiscits]

i just love shocking uptight people. i live for it. the look of surprise on their faces makes getting up in the morning worthwhile. alot of the time i say things that really weren't meant to be shocking and it really bugs me when people are going around telling everyone what a shocking comment i made. one instance that pops into my head was at my nans funeral we all had to walk over other graves to get to hers and my esfj sister was freaking out feeling all guilty so to make her feel better i said " ah i'm sure they wont mind" she made a big deal out of it later to all the relatives saying how blunt i can be sometimes. WTF!! god help her if she ever meets anyone who actually is blunt!

 

[teabiscits]

Hahaha, my INFJ dad hates when I do/say stuff like this. I've noticed quite a few xxFJ's don't like vulgarity or bluntness in any way...have any of you noticed this?

well i was just saying in the istp forum that me and my infj daughter are always saying horrible things to each other but it's all in fun. i suppose i have helped shape her so she's not going to be an easily offended infj with me as her mam. she begged me when she was younger to be allowed to say curse words and i said "well in certain circumstances i guess it's ok" but then she took it to a whole other level and it was I who got offended in the end by hearing these words coming out of her innocent little face. live and learn i suppose!