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Unfortunetly, I've noticed that a lot of these don't last very long. Especially with sensors.
This is not how this worksin order to get #2, i must make a Type 1 happy, because a happy Type 1 = Type 7 = ENFP
in turn, she makes me happy, thus, I become a Type 5 and im able to provide for her endlessly... and happily ever after...
Wouldn't this apply to the average person? Especially the bolded part.I know a few 7's and timing seems to play a big role as to if they settle down or not. At some points in their life they're so outgoing I don't think the perfect mate could make them want to stop flipping from one partner to another. At some point that gets old and they settle down with the right person. I'm sure the matter of partner vs. individual's status is a huge debate with many variables.
The spontaneous nature of a 7 makes influences that timing. It seems to take a bit before 7's settle down with all of the partying and such. True, I am basing this completely off stereotype and personal experience. I don't pretend to have the all the answers, just an understanding.Wouldn't this apply to the average person? Especially the bolded part.
Okay, it's based off stereotypes and your personal experience. However, from my personal experience, timing can be an issue for anyone as it relates to settling down.The spontaneous nature of a 7 makes influences that timing. It seems to take a bit before 7's settle down with all of the partying and such. True, I am basing this completely off stereotype and personal experience. I don't pretend to have the all the answers, just an understanding.
I'm so ready for this whole marriage thing, haha. Bring it on!
wink wink wink wink wink @timeless
lolololol :laughing:
@EerieI could go for a type 7 marriage ;D
From my experience and reasoning 7's seem to enjoy the single life more than other types, which makes timing more of an issue. I can't really expand on this any better. Take it for what it is. I'm done explaining myself.Okay, it's based off stereotypes and your personal experience. However, from my personal experience, timing can be an issue for anyone as it relates to settling down.
I know a few 7's and timing seems to play a big role as to if they settle down or not. At some points in their life they're so outgoing I don't think the perfect mate could make them want to stop flipping from one partner to another. At some point that gets old and they settle down with the right person. I'm sure the matter of partner vs. individual's status is a huge debate with many variables.
(followed by examples of how I seen this play out)
good luck finding an ENFP 1. they're pretty rare. could I suggest an ENFP 3? they would still have the organized, disciplined, pragmatic side of the 1 and they're much more common among ENFPs. plus ENFP 3s tend to be more chill than 1s and could match your positive 7 energyi think for me personally,
being a type 7-wing 8... (ENxP) a little weighted towards ENTP...
1) i believe, that i need to marry a Type 1 because I really want an ENFP wife...
2) also i believe it is a requirement for me to "want" to make my wife happy, so....
in order to get #2, i must make a Type 1 happy, because a happy Type 1 = Type 7 = ENFP
in turn, she makes me happy, thus, I become a Type 5 and im able to provide for her endlessly... and happily ever after...
sooo....
recap...
1) what personality type do u really love to hang out with all the time?
2) take ur answer from 1) and classify that = your soulmate's growth Type
3) make her happy, and she will make you happy!
I was with a 7 for a year and a half...and this is most definitely descriptive of him. However, I can see WHY he did these things. With me being a One (and often overly-critical), why WOULD he want to share his inner-most, ugliest personality traits? Or even admit to any problems? It would've made grounds for me to gloat or try to fix things that were, in his opinion, "not broken".3:They may be unwilling to show their partners what they perceive to be "undesirable" parts of their personalities.
5: Might withdraw into their heads too much and neglect their partner.
9: a tendency to avoid problems in the relationship to keep up the illusion of happiness.
My partner knows every side of my personality, and my secrets. And who I really am on the inside. The good and the bad. I'm an open book like that though. *shrugs*Similar to the 1, needs the image of the marriage to be good, even if it isn't, because they don't want to look like they're unraveling. They may be unwilling to show their partners what they perceive to be "undesirable" parts of their personalities.